Moving is a stressful time for anyone, but I think the stress is getting to the kids most right now. There are boxes everywhere, we just got rid of the piano, our routine has been blown out the window with me scouting housing, trying to pack, do school with them, etc. Plus, they're starting to understand that they aren't going to see their friends and our family as often anymore. I've had more than my share of "first months home flashbacks" lately! lol!
Basically, I'm having a bit of trouble with the kiddos right now. Yesterday Aleksa got in more hot water than she'd been in in the last six weeks altogether it seems like. She was seeking control alllll day long. Control of her siblings, control of herself, control of her mama... Uff. It was a long day. (And she's usually the easiest!)
Liana has been doing the best, actually. She gave her best friend a necklace that she kept the match to (One said "Friends" and one said "Forever"), and she got to spend the whole afternoon at her house on Sunday as a last hurrah type of a thing. She has choked up a few times thinking of leaving her friends/family, but I think that's *exactly* what a normal little 7yo would be feeling. No acting-out; she's handling life beautifully actually.
And then there's Adam. He has been hitting every single control button he has ever found all lately, only going overtime doing so. Because of his speech difficulties, we often ask him to say something differently, or correctly. Well, this morning I asked him to say, "What did she say?" again. He came up with about 500 different ways to possibly mangle that question, refusing to even come close to how it is supposed to be. That's his way of having control. We can't force what comes out of his mouth, so that's his "weapon" of choice with us. This afternoon, he couldn't read the word "mixed." Well, he CAN read the word "mixed" but he refused to do so. He said "mixed-ed," "mix-Edd" and about a half dozen variants, all the while refusing to say the correct one. It's weird to me that he thinks it hurts me when he doesn't read/say something right. He expects me to blow up at him, I'm pretty sure. That's odd to say, but truly, if he finds that something *remotely* annoys one of us, he jumps on it.
He has a new one too. He uses this one on his sisters quite often, and now in the last month or so has started to use it on me and John. He'll declare that he hates something, or that it is bad, or that he doesn't want to do something that everyone else thinks is fun - just to be annoying. Our homeschool group went bowling a few weeks ago, which we were all looking forward to. On the way there, we had to stop at the bank quick, during which time, he pulled his sisters aside and told them he HATED bowling, and that he was going to beg me to not make him go, and that he would not bowl, etc. Well, the girls got all ruffled about it, and they started crying, etc. I called his bluff, however, and told him he was welcome to sit in the car and do schoolwork while the rest of us had fun.
Yesterday, while I was looking online at houses, he told me he HATED the one I liked and that it was gross, and that he didn't want to go there, etc. It's just his control mechanism, apparently. His way of hanging onto some thread of control over his life. Perhaps many 11yo's do this, but this "kind" of thing fits well into how he wields control over other things.
All that to say: If you are looking for older kids, are you ready for them to look for and FIND your hot-buttons? How in-control of yourself are you? (Because they will needle you hard and long to see if you'll break). The more you break, the more often they'll needle you. Adam is _SO_ good at it. I've flunked out many, many times with him, and while I don't fail as often as I used to, I have definitely been challenged. What you don't think is in your heart will come floating to the top, truly, with a child who is not fully attached to you. Are you ready for the challenge of living 24/7 with a child who is on a constant seek-and-destroy mission to wear you down and see what you're made of? Are you a rock? Or are you close enough to BECOME a rock in short order? Because you can NOT blow up at these kids. You just can't. (In fact, at this *very* minute, Adam is doing it again. He has never heard the word "minutes" he says, so he doesn't know how to say it. He sure gets an A+ for creativity in how many different ways it could be possibly said, however!)
It is a challenge to parent older kids. It is a joy, but there are challenges too. Their hurts are deep, and their fears often control them. Fear of letting someone into their life, fear of letting go what threads of power they might feel they have. Can you be stronger than our emotions and not give in when they challenge you? Can you absolutely NOT let your child rule the house like that "bad Papa at McDonalds?") If you can, you can succeed at tearing down those walls around their hearts. You will have victories, and great joys in your parenting. If you are the kind of person that lets your emotions control you, you're in for a very long haul, I'm afraid.
That said, I still wouldn't have done it any other way, and we will be looking for older kids if we ever adopt again...
Tuesday, April 25, 2006
Sunday, April 23, 2006
Bad Papas
I have to tell you all about what happened at McDonalds the other day. We were all sitting in a booth directly across from (and almost uncomfortably close to) another one with a man and his maybe 4yo little girl. The little girl started whining horribly that she wanted more chicken nuggets, and the dad kept saying, "no." Well, she kept it up until finally the dad had enough... and he got up, said, "Ok, fine," and went and bought her what she wanted. !.
John and I shot some raised eyebrows at each other, but Liana broke our silence. She couldn't believe it either, evidently, because very bewildered-like, she said, "That papa is going to buy her chicken nuggets! She made her papa buy her chicken nuggets!" She was shocked, shocked, shocked. I asked her, "Liana, what did he just teach that little girl?" And she very wisely said, "To whine some more whenever she wants something."
"Yup."
I was sooooo proud of her!
John and I shot some raised eyebrows at each other, but Liana broke our silence. She couldn't believe it either, evidently, because very bewildered-like, she said, "That papa is going to buy her chicken nuggets! She made her papa buy her chicken nuggets!" She was shocked, shocked, shocked. I asked her, "Liana, what did he just teach that little girl?" And she very wisely said, "To whine some more whenever she wants something."
"Yup."
I was sooooo proud of her!
Sunday, April 16, 2006
20 Months Home!
Happy Easter, everyone!
Wow, so much has happened this last month! The biggest, most earth-shattering news is that John got a new job in Minneapolis, and we'll be moving up there as soon as possible. We're hoping to find a house in Hudson, WI, though, just across the river from the Cities. We'll see. John actually signs the contract tomorrow, (er, today, depending one when you're reading this!) He was off shootin' at some food the other day, and all of a sudden up through the ground came this job... ;O) That's almost what happened. They found him, not vice versa, so this was a sudden (and very welcomed!) surprise. We're going to hate moving away from family and friends, but well, the next chapter of the Fisher Adventure is about to start! John's first day of work is May 8th. (!). The kids are excited, but I don't think they fully understand what all of this means. Adam is ecstatic at the thought of getting a dog. Hopefully it will work out that we can buy a house instead of rent one, but I don't want to rush into anything. Wanna get what I want, if you know what I mean... But, well, probably what I want isn't quite going to happen right away anyway. (I may have mentioned my dream of a farmhouse with a few goats in the yard...) (I know, I'm weird. Guess I need to pack up and move to Ukraine!) ;O)
Anyway, that's been the major bulk of what's been going through my brain lately. It has eaten my life, as a matter of fact. (Anything ever done that to you?) Thankfully, I did the girls' Easter dresses before any of this started up, so they were set for Easter. The Boys got their matching shirts again, too. And, they wound up with enough candy to last them about three weeks. Check that. Three days tops, I'm betting. ;O) I was telling my sister that the sugar buzz was pretty serious over here today. Thankfully everyone made it (alive and whole) into their beds tonight! ;O)
At dinner this afternoon (we went to John's sister's house), the kids and their cousin were talking, and their little 3yo cousin called someone "Zina." Aleksa piped up and asked for confirmation that that's what he'd said, and then she told him, "That's what my name was in Ukraine at the orphanage when nobody got me." (Mama promptly burst into tears...) I think it hit me so hard because our Aleksa NEVER EVER EVER volunteers talk about the orphanage. She hasn't ever talked about what she remembers, or if asked, she'll say she doesn't remember anything. She doesn't talk about it. Her brother and sister talk about it all the time, and while she doesn't leave the room or appear upset, she simply doesn't contribute anything. So, her saying that really hit me. She's cognitively at the point where she's beginning to puzzle together what has happened to her, whereas before, she let it fly over her head. Anyway, I'm sure I'll choke up about that for a good long time thinking about that...
After I pulled myself together a bit, I said, "Well, Leks, somebody's got you now!" I think "orphanage" comments are really starting to hit me harder now that our heart strings are tied as tight as they are. It absolutely kills me that Leksa had to sit in an orphanage so long with "nobody getting her." And my Adam and Liana! Nobody got them either! And there are so many others in the world waiting for mamas and papas. Maybe this job change will mean the possibility of Future Fishers too... So many little ones suffering out there wondering why nobody's got them yet...
Saturday, April 01, 2006
April Fool!
Last year would have been crazy of us to do so, but this year, John and I have decided to initiate the children on APRIL FOOL'S DAY! *tee-hee*
We stayed up waaaaaay too late with a skein of yarn and a buncha toilet paper. We made major webs in their rooms making walking through their rooms an obstacle course. First we Yarned the rooms, and then we tp'd everything. It was a work of art.
This morning the kids woke up not at alllll excited. ;O) They were squealing, and giggling, and asking Why we would do it, and pretty much having a blast in all their mess. We told them we didn't know what they were talkng about, and that they should be ashamed of themselves making such messes so early in the morning. *hmph* lol! Well, that got them on an instant mission to play April Fools tricks on US! They gathered as much yarn as they could get, and they are now trying to make their own webs in the kitchen, livingroom, our bedroom.... (What did we do?!!!) ;O)
Monday, March 27, 2006
Best wishes to the Westons!
Remember last year when I posted the Weston's website?
http://www.wadeandjuliaweston.com
They were the family that adopted the two teen siblings, and had to leave one girl, Katya behind because her paperwork was not in order. Well, They're on their way to get her! They have an appointment at the NAC on March 30, and they need all the prayers they can get. The NAC is going to shut down for the whole month of April according to many rumors. But, the Westons are going anyway, and hoping for the best. Please, please, pray for this family, and their Katya, who they have waited so very long for. Buckle your seatbelts folks. This trip will be tougher than the last, I'm betting.
http://www.wadeandjuliaweston.com
They were the family that adopted the two teen siblings, and had to leave one girl, Katya behind because her paperwork was not in order. Well, They're on their way to get her! They have an appointment at the NAC on March 30, and they need all the prayers they can get. The NAC is going to shut down for the whole month of April according to many rumors. But, the Westons are going anyway, and hoping for the best. Please, please, pray for this family, and their Katya, who they have waited so very long for. Buckle your seatbelts folks. This trip will be tougher than the last, I'm betting.
Thursday, March 23, 2006
Re: Helen Keller
I have to blog this real quick...
I was just telling John about a gal who dropped me an email today and said that she'd read my entry about the Helen Keller movie, and also said that she'd seen that movie a few years ago, and wanted to know, "is adopting really like that?" because she didn't think she could handle it if it really was.
John grinned, nodded up and down, and said, "Yes, it IS like that movie ~ for about two months. But then you get used to it, and it's ok." LOL! I busted up laughing over that one. No wonder I have a permanant twitch in my right eye!
We are just kidding, btw. It does get better.
(Usually!) ;O)
I was just telling John about a gal who dropped me an email today and said that she'd read my entry about the Helen Keller movie, and also said that she'd seen that movie a few years ago, and wanted to know, "is adopting really like that?" because she didn't think she could handle it if it really was.
John grinned, nodded up and down, and said, "Yes, it IS like that movie ~ for about two months. But then you get used to it, and it's ok." LOL! I busted up laughing over that one. No wonder I have a permanant twitch in my right eye!
We are just kidding, btw. It does get better.
(Usually!) ;O)
Wednesday, March 22, 2006
Helen Keller Movie
We watched a video the other night... it was "The Miracle Worker" with Hallie Kate Eisenberg as Helen Keller. If you haven't seen it, and are planning to adopt, RUN OUT AND GET IT. As I watched it, my heart actually started racing as I had flashbacks of when the kids first came home. Almost a panic-type of a heart-racing. I looked over at John and without me asking him, he said something like, "Yes, it reminds me of that too." The movie really illustrates what an unattached child "looks" like - especially the first days/weeks home. If I have any advice for y'all, it would be to watch this movie with your spouse, and then afterwards, talk out (at GREAT LENGTH) what YOU would do to parent such a child if he/she were in your home. How would you deal with it if your child did some of the things Helen did in the show? What lengths would you go to to make the child "well?" Helen's teacher went to great - even ENORMOUS lengths to help her. What are you willing to do?
The story has a happy ending. It was so touching, and hit home soooo hard, that John had tears dripping off his chin. I was choked up too. Our kids weren't *quite* as horrible as Helen, but when you multiply what each of our kids had times three... well, we were having Flashbacks Like Crazy at the many times we felt as overwhelmed with the strong wills of our kiddos.
Go rent it. I'm tellin' ya, you'll have a clue what those first weeks home will be like, and by making your game plan now, you'll save yourselves some Excederin. Ok, you might need some anyhow. ;O)
The story has a happy ending. It was so touching, and hit home soooo hard, that John had tears dripping off his chin. I was choked up too. Our kids weren't *quite* as horrible as Helen, but when you multiply what each of our kids had times three... well, we were having Flashbacks Like Crazy at the many times we felt as overwhelmed with the strong wills of our kiddos.
Go rent it. I'm tellin' ya, you'll have a clue what those first weeks home will be like, and by making your game plan now, you'll save yourselves some Excederin. Ok, you might need some anyhow. ;O)
Monday, March 20, 2006
19 Months Home
I'm a few days late posting this. The 17th was our 19 months home mark. I've been a bit overwhelmed lately with a very full plate. It's actually really starting to get to me, but I think things are about to calm down a bit (fingers crossed!), so hopefully I'll feel more like a person soon! I took a three hour nap on Saturday to recover from last week, and I've felt lots better ever since.
A lot has happened this month!
Adam first. Seems like we're constantly pulling a "one step forward, two steps back" with him. He'll be cruising along, and then crash into the side of the road and we have to go back a little way and regroup to start again. John and I have noticed some food issues that seemed to have been quiet for a while start revving up again. We've been noticing that *every* time Adam sees that there is extra food to be had during mealtimes, he'll ask for it. Doesn't matter what it is. Could be a spoonful of peas at the bottom of a serving bowl. Could be another slice of ham. Whatever. If he sees it, he'll ask for it. He doesn't hoard or steal food though, and hasn't since he first came home. Some wounds take longer to heal than others, however. :O(
Other than the food thing, Adam has been doing pretty well! He still likes to test me to see if I'm really a) in authority over him and b) if I really love him or not. (Psssst, Adam! a) yes, I am! and b) yes, I do!)
The language thing is still his biggest issue, but he's really been doing GREAT this month! Unfortunately, the only people that really know that are me and John, because once he gets an audience, he's all show, and for some reason, shuts off the brain and starts getting silly, and he can't concentrate enough to really speak clearly and correctly. He has been speaking full paragraphs *beautifully* save for one or two words or grammar structure errors. I have more confidence in that than ever that the future is pretty bright for him regarding his speech. Couldn't always say that truthfully.
Other than that stuff, he's enjoying doing Boy Stuff. He has his tent set up in his room and has been sleeping in it quite often lately. He's got it made, really. Between his loft bed, and his tent, he's been having a ball!
Next, Liana. She's still so strong willed! I've been babysitting a bunch for John's sister's kids lately, and Liana is little-miss-mama. Until a few days ago, when the baby would come over, she was constantly reminding ME to do this, that or the other thing concerning the baby. (We had to have a chit-chat over that one). She can diaper the baby, feed the baby, rock the baby, put the baby to sleep, carry the baby around, etc. (The baby is a year old, btw). But, baby Callie has come to really love Liana too. She was following Liana around all day Friday asking Liana to pick her up.
Otherwise though, while she struggles Daily with her strong will, she does seem to be wanting to be doing what's right, and these months of constantly redirecting that "power" really do seem to be paying off. She has truly come a long way already. It's just that she's got a long way to go yet too! ;O) She's gonna be a dynamite whatever it is, that's for sure!
Liana has taken off to outerspace with her reading, and I suspect it will keep getting better and better from here on out. She has just this month discovered how much FUN reading is! YAY! Just a few nights ago, she picked up a book and read it to Aleksa on the couch, just for fun. (Trust me, this wouldn't have happened last month... either her reading would have been too choppy to keep Leksa's attention, or Liana wouldn't have wanted to do it in the first place!) It was realllllly heartwarming for this mama! :O) Adam stood over their shoulder and helped Liana out whenever she stumbled over a word (which wasn't very often), but mostly, he listened in. John and I think the whole trouble with Liana's "taking off" had to do with her will. She is a proud little girl (uff!) If she can't do something well, she doesn't want to do it, and she'll get instantly MAD at YOU if she can't do it right. That meant a rocky start at reading, since she couldn't do it right at first! But now that she KNOWS she can do it... look out world! :O)
Speaking of looking out world! Here comes Aleksa Lu! She's just blowing me away with how fast she's picking up reading. Today she read a really long story (for her - it was probably 8 lines long). She's been chomping at the bit to read "the big one" and today was the day! The other two, when they had to read this particular story a year ago, pitched Major Fits at the THOUGHT of having to read it. It's all in the attitude, I'm almost certain. Aleksa does a little cheer for herself at the end of every correct word or sentence. The other two never did. Aleksa thinks it is fun to TRY to read it, even if she's wrong and stumbles. The other two panicked. (Don't get me wrong - they did "ok" - but well, now that I have Aleksa to compare them to, I can see that they did have a harder time).
Aleksa is also little miss geographer! Our world map is on our kitchen table under the plastic table cloth (remember me mentioning that?) Well, I quiz the older two on where places are on the map every lunchtime. Well, Miss Smartie has learned these places right along with the other two. She can tell you where Ukraine, Russia, USA, China, Mongolia, India, Italy, Egypt, Greece, Kenya, the Nile River, and a few other places are! Pretty good for a 5 year old! (And pretty good for a 7 and an 11yo too, because they all know 'em!)
All three kids got baptized last Sunday! I got pretty wet myself! We "dunk" at our church as opposed to sprinkle or pour, so, as I helped them out of the baptistry, I got pretty soaked. (John sat with the congregation and video taped it). Of course, it didn't help that as I took one out, that instead of sending him/her to the changing room, I made them stay there to watch the next one get baptized too. My shoes were pretty wet with everyone's drippage. I couldn't miss it though! I wasn't about to miss 2 of my kids getting baptized because I was towelling off one! What kind of mom would have done that!? Everyone came out of the changing rooms dry except for me, because I was the only one who didn't bring a change of clothes! Anyway, it was really neat, and it sure hit home to us how far the kids have come in just a year and 7 months! Pastor said some really nice things afterwards, and it really choked me up a bit. I was glad to be hiding in the dressing room instead of sitting in the pew where I would have been all choked up in public.
I think this month, over all the recent months, has given us a clearer picture of how "life is going to be" for us. Adam's speech is indeed improving. Liana's strong will is indeed being redirected. Aleksa is indeed learning up a storm and understanding more than we give her credit for. We're getting there. But more importantly, we're enjoying the trip along the way!
A lot has happened this month!
Adam first. Seems like we're constantly pulling a "one step forward, two steps back" with him. He'll be cruising along, and then crash into the side of the road and we have to go back a little way and regroup to start again. John and I have noticed some food issues that seemed to have been quiet for a while start revving up again. We've been noticing that *every* time Adam sees that there is extra food to be had during mealtimes, he'll ask for it. Doesn't matter what it is. Could be a spoonful of peas at the bottom of a serving bowl. Could be another slice of ham. Whatever. If he sees it, he'll ask for it. He doesn't hoard or steal food though, and hasn't since he first came home. Some wounds take longer to heal than others, however. :O(
Other than the food thing, Adam has been doing pretty well! He still likes to test me to see if I'm really a) in authority over him and b) if I really love him or not. (Psssst, Adam! a) yes, I am! and b) yes, I do!)
The language thing is still his biggest issue, but he's really been doing GREAT this month! Unfortunately, the only people that really know that are me and John, because once he gets an audience, he's all show, and for some reason, shuts off the brain and starts getting silly, and he can't concentrate enough to really speak clearly and correctly. He has been speaking full paragraphs *beautifully* save for one or two words or grammar structure errors. I have more confidence in that than ever that the future is pretty bright for him regarding his speech. Couldn't always say that truthfully.
Other than that stuff, he's enjoying doing Boy Stuff. He has his tent set up in his room and has been sleeping in it quite often lately. He's got it made, really. Between his loft bed, and his tent, he's been having a ball!
Next, Liana. She's still so strong willed! I've been babysitting a bunch for John's sister's kids lately, and Liana is little-miss-mama. Until a few days ago, when the baby would come over, she was constantly reminding ME to do this, that or the other thing concerning the baby. (We had to have a chit-chat over that one). She can diaper the baby, feed the baby, rock the baby, put the baby to sleep, carry the baby around, etc. (The baby is a year old, btw). But, baby Callie has come to really love Liana too. She was following Liana around all day Friday asking Liana to pick her up.
Otherwise though, while she struggles Daily with her strong will, she does seem to be wanting to be doing what's right, and these months of constantly redirecting that "power" really do seem to be paying off. She has truly come a long way already. It's just that she's got a long way to go yet too! ;O) She's gonna be a dynamite whatever it is, that's for sure!
Liana has taken off to outerspace with her reading, and I suspect it will keep getting better and better from here on out. She has just this month discovered how much FUN reading is! YAY! Just a few nights ago, she picked up a book and read it to Aleksa on the couch, just for fun. (Trust me, this wouldn't have happened last month... either her reading would have been too choppy to keep Leksa's attention, or Liana wouldn't have wanted to do it in the first place!) It was realllllly heartwarming for this mama! :O) Adam stood over their shoulder and helped Liana out whenever she stumbled over a word (which wasn't very often), but mostly, he listened in. John and I think the whole trouble with Liana's "taking off" had to do with her will. She is a proud little girl (uff!) If she can't do something well, she doesn't want to do it, and she'll get instantly MAD at YOU if she can't do it right. That meant a rocky start at reading, since she couldn't do it right at first! But now that she KNOWS she can do it... look out world! :O)
Speaking of looking out world! Here comes Aleksa Lu! She's just blowing me away with how fast she's picking up reading. Today she read a really long story (for her - it was probably 8 lines long). She's been chomping at the bit to read "the big one" and today was the day! The other two, when they had to read this particular story a year ago, pitched Major Fits at the THOUGHT of having to read it. It's all in the attitude, I'm almost certain. Aleksa does a little cheer for herself at the end of every correct word or sentence. The other two never did. Aleksa thinks it is fun to TRY to read it, even if she's wrong and stumbles. The other two panicked. (Don't get me wrong - they did "ok" - but well, now that I have Aleksa to compare them to, I can see that they did have a harder time).
Aleksa is also little miss geographer! Our world map is on our kitchen table under the plastic table cloth (remember me mentioning that?) Well, I quiz the older two on where places are on the map every lunchtime. Well, Miss Smartie has learned these places right along with the other two. She can tell you where Ukraine, Russia, USA, China, Mongolia, India, Italy, Egypt, Greece, Kenya, the Nile River, and a few other places are! Pretty good for a 5 year old! (And pretty good for a 7 and an 11yo too, because they all know 'em!)
All three kids got baptized last Sunday! I got pretty wet myself! We "dunk" at our church as opposed to sprinkle or pour, so, as I helped them out of the baptistry, I got pretty soaked. (John sat with the congregation and video taped it). Of course, it didn't help that as I took one out, that instead of sending him/her to the changing room, I made them stay there to watch the next one get baptized too. My shoes were pretty wet with everyone's drippage. I couldn't miss it though! I wasn't about to miss 2 of my kids getting baptized because I was towelling off one! What kind of mom would have done that!? Everyone came out of the changing rooms dry except for me, because I was the only one who didn't bring a change of clothes! Anyway, it was really neat, and it sure hit home to us how far the kids have come in just a year and 7 months! Pastor said some really nice things afterwards, and it really choked me up a bit. I was glad to be hiding in the dressing room instead of sitting in the pew where I would have been all choked up in public.
I think this month, over all the recent months, has given us a clearer picture of how "life is going to be" for us. Adam's speech is indeed improving. Liana's strong will is indeed being redirected. Aleksa is indeed learning up a storm and understanding more than we give her credit for. We're getting there. But more importantly, we're enjoying the trip along the way!
Saturday, March 04, 2006
Good Night Jim Bob!
Can't go to bed quite yet. My mind is full of kid-thoughts. Not really sure what I'm going to write, but I guess I just gotta post something!
Today was one of those "day in the life" kind of days. Nothing at all extraordinary happened today. In fact, if I sit back and look at the things we did today, I'd say it was rather a boring day. Know what? Strike that. It was perfect.
Aside from our Saturday trip to the library, we pretty much just stayed home and enjoyed being "us." Well, except for John (poor guy!) He's been swamped with work and extra projects lately, so he was stuck sitting at the computer all day long trying to cross things off that to-do list. He even skipped out of the library run. *gasp!* So, I guess the day wasn't completely perfect since he couldn't fully participate. :O(
Anyway, as for the rest of us, we basically just lounged around. We all seemed to gravitate toward wherever the rest of us were, so we all found ourselves in our room (where John was working), and the kids and I tickled, and snuggled, and chatted, and wrestled. Other than Liana finding one of my very few tickle spots, it was a stress-free kind of a day. It was the kind of day where I go to bed completely Knowing that I am blessed, blessed, blessed and absolutely thrilled to be a mom.
I grew up an only child. Sure, I have six siblings, but they were up and out of the house by the time I could really remember much. Whenever they came home, I loved the fact that the house made noise. I knew I'd have lots of kids when I grew up. It really was Devastation when I realized I couldn't physically have any. After a day like today I think, "OK, I've got three, this is easy, let's go get some more!" (I really need to check out some Waltons dvd's from the library... maybe that will inspire John to want to go get some more kiddos somewhere!) JUST KIDDING! Kinda. ;O) Anyway, though we only do have three kids, it definitely was a "Good night John Boy" kind of a day. Thank you, God, for my family!
Today was one of those "day in the life" kind of days. Nothing at all extraordinary happened today. In fact, if I sit back and look at the things we did today, I'd say it was rather a boring day. Know what? Strike that. It was perfect.
Aside from our Saturday trip to the library, we pretty much just stayed home and enjoyed being "us." Well, except for John (poor guy!) He's been swamped with work and extra projects lately, so he was stuck sitting at the computer all day long trying to cross things off that to-do list. He even skipped out of the library run. *gasp!* So, I guess the day wasn't completely perfect since he couldn't fully participate. :O(
Anyway, as for the rest of us, we basically just lounged around. We all seemed to gravitate toward wherever the rest of us were, so we all found ourselves in our room (where John was working), and the kids and I tickled, and snuggled, and chatted, and wrestled. Other than Liana finding one of my very few tickle spots, it was a stress-free kind of a day. It was the kind of day where I go to bed completely Knowing that I am blessed, blessed, blessed and absolutely thrilled to be a mom.
I grew up an only child. Sure, I have six siblings, but they were up and out of the house by the time I could really remember much. Whenever they came home, I loved the fact that the house made noise. I knew I'd have lots of kids when I grew up. It really was Devastation when I realized I couldn't physically have any. After a day like today I think, "OK, I've got three, this is easy, let's go get some more!" (I really need to check out some Waltons dvd's from the library... maybe that will inspire John to want to go get some more kiddos somewhere!) JUST KIDDING! Kinda. ;O) Anyway, though we only do have three kids, it definitely was a "Good night John Boy" kind of a day. Thank you, God, for my family!
Thursday, March 02, 2006
Lesson Learned
Memo to Self:
Next time you get a months' worth of groceries and then decide to let the kids bring in the food as you stay outside and hand bags to them out of the trunk, think again....
Saturday, February 18, 2006
1 1/2 Years Home!
Yesterday was our 1 1/2 anniversary! We celebrated by John and I going out. Ok, well, that isn't why we celebrated; we went to a Valentine Banquet. Last year when we went to this, Adam cried realllllllly hard at the thought of us leaving, and it took him a long time to stop. This year, he didn't even blink. I had almost forgotten about Adam crying, but when I told the kids that we were going out and that Uncle Jared was coming to watch them, Adam told me he wasn't scared about it this time.
Lets see.... not a whole lot to update about since last month's update. The kids are doing great! Every month they get a little better though! :O) When they get excited, you might want to stand back! They get to be little monkeys when they're wound up!
Hmmm... Adam first. His speech is still difficult for him, but he really is getting better all the time. Unfortunately, when he is remotely excited or stressed, or "put-on-the-spot" he can't speak well at all. I've noticed the last few times I've video-taped him, he got all nervous and couldn't speak well at all. Gonna have to find a way of taping him more incognito. But, really, his grammar has gotten much better, (adding those "do's" "is's", etc.) but prepositional phrases are killers for him. He'll say something like, "The toy is where the floor." Instead of "on" the floor, or "Liana is where the street" instead of "by" the street, etc.
This month, however, Adam has made enormous strides in his attachment to me. He and I have been "hanging out" more together. For instance, yesterday while the girls took a bath, Adam and I sat in the kitchen munching popcorn together and just chatted away. He's just let himself be more of my buddy lately. He hasn't challenged me like he used to, and he seems to have quit enjoying "pushing my buttons" like he did soooooo often in previous months.
He still enjoys being a good helper. He's always asking what he can to do help. Never complains about doing dishes, vacuuming, taking out garbage, etc. Never.
On the school front, math is a killer for him. Absolute killer. John is writing a program to help track his math a little better, to ensure that he is mastering things, and not just getting it one day, and then forgetting the next day (without me realizing it.)
His oral reading has improved quite a bit this month, though it is really hard to judge what is his "speech/language" problem, and what is a reading problem. His comprehension is perfect, but articulation is still difficult, and he does stutter when he reads, as he does when he speaks (though that stutter has diminished quite a bit lately).
Liana next. She's made the biggest improvements with her reading this month. I think Adam's comprehension is slightly better than hers as far as knowing what she's reading, but she's much improved over last month, and has gained a lot of confidence this month. In fact, yesterday she asked if she could read ahead a little bit in her reader. That wouldn't have happened last month, I don't think.
She's also come a long way in her behavior. She's really a sweetie. Sometimes it's hard to see how far she's come until I meet a child who is a Brat and think, "wow, that used to be Liana!" Recently, I met a child who was outspoken, selfish, rude, proud, waaaay overindulged. Her parents let her have/do/say whatever she wanted pretty much. I just thought, "wow, this could have been Liana sooo easily. Good thing we adopted her instead of this other family!" What was extra-impressive was Liana's reaction to the girl. She was quiet, well-behaved and mostly just "watched" this girl. Later she told me she didn't want to be "like that." I almost laughed since she really WAS like that not so long ago! (Minus the over-indulging parents, mind you!) She still has some residuals that need to be wiped up a bit yet, but really, Liana is a great kid already!
Then Aleksa. I can't believe this is the same girl we came home with. She's very quickly progressing with her reading, and I just plain can't believe it. I thought when we brought her home that she was going to be really challenged in her learning. She's the opposite, I think. She's catching on a million times faster than her siblings did with reading. Maybe it is because she had a whole year of English under belt that the other two didn't have though. Not sure. All I know is that she's flying through her phonics/reading lessons and begging for more. She is loving the reading I'm doing with the other two during school time. We're still reading some Little House books, and she loves to "pretend" she did the things we just read about "Laura" doing in the books, right down to pretending "Jack" is following her around.
I don't know if I've mentioned it before, but the kids each have a thinking skills book that they work on during school time. That involves seeing patterns, sorting, classifying things according to shape, color or size, etc. I think it has helped all three of them - it has become more of a "fun" time than something they "have" to do. There again, Aleksa has been cruising. She has pattern blocks, or snapping cube blocks for her book, and she really loves it and is beaming-proud of completing her pages for the day.
All three have grown a foot, and I'm sick about it. I haven't even measured them lately. They aren't allowed to get any bigger! My son is going to be as tall as I am in about six months. Liana and Aleksa can just quit their growing too. They are supposed to stay tiny forever, right?
Well, I really need to get going. The troops are up and running, and that that means Mama better get herself in gear ASAP!
Lets see.... not a whole lot to update about since last month's update. The kids are doing great! Every month they get a little better though! :O) When they get excited, you might want to stand back! They get to be little monkeys when they're wound up!
Hmmm... Adam first. His speech is still difficult for him, but he really is getting better all the time. Unfortunately, when he is remotely excited or stressed, or "put-on-the-spot" he can't speak well at all. I've noticed the last few times I've video-taped him, he got all nervous and couldn't speak well at all. Gonna have to find a way of taping him more incognito. But, really, his grammar has gotten much better, (adding those "do's" "is's", etc.) but prepositional phrases are killers for him. He'll say something like, "The toy is where the floor." Instead of "on" the floor, or "Liana is where the street" instead of "by" the street, etc.
This month, however, Adam has made enormous strides in his attachment to me. He and I have been "hanging out" more together. For instance, yesterday while the girls took a bath, Adam and I sat in the kitchen munching popcorn together and just chatted away. He's just let himself be more of my buddy lately. He hasn't challenged me like he used to, and he seems to have quit enjoying "pushing my buttons" like he did soooooo often in previous months.
He still enjoys being a good helper. He's always asking what he can to do help. Never complains about doing dishes, vacuuming, taking out garbage, etc. Never.
On the school front, math is a killer for him. Absolute killer. John is writing a program to help track his math a little better, to ensure that he is mastering things, and not just getting it one day, and then forgetting the next day (without me realizing it.)
His oral reading has improved quite a bit this month, though it is really hard to judge what is his "speech/language" problem, and what is a reading problem. His comprehension is perfect, but articulation is still difficult, and he does stutter when he reads, as he does when he speaks (though that stutter has diminished quite a bit lately).
Liana next. She's made the biggest improvements with her reading this month. I think Adam's comprehension is slightly better than hers as far as knowing what she's reading, but she's much improved over last month, and has gained a lot of confidence this month. In fact, yesterday she asked if she could read ahead a little bit in her reader. That wouldn't have happened last month, I don't think.
She's also come a long way in her behavior. She's really a sweetie. Sometimes it's hard to see how far she's come until I meet a child who is a Brat and think, "wow, that used to be Liana!" Recently, I met a child who was outspoken, selfish, rude, proud, waaaay overindulged. Her parents let her have/do/say whatever she wanted pretty much. I just thought, "wow, this could have been Liana sooo easily. Good thing we adopted her instead of this other family!" What was extra-impressive was Liana's reaction to the girl. She was quiet, well-behaved and mostly just "watched" this girl. Later she told me she didn't want to be "like that." I almost laughed since she really WAS like that not so long ago! (Minus the over-indulging parents, mind you!) She still has some residuals that need to be wiped up a bit yet, but really, Liana is a great kid already!
Then Aleksa. I can't believe this is the same girl we came home with. She's very quickly progressing with her reading, and I just plain can't believe it. I thought when we brought her home that she was going to be really challenged in her learning. She's the opposite, I think. She's catching on a million times faster than her siblings did with reading. Maybe it is because she had a whole year of English under belt that the other two didn't have though. Not sure. All I know is that she's flying through her phonics/reading lessons and begging for more. She is loving the reading I'm doing with the other two during school time. We're still reading some Little House books, and she loves to "pretend" she did the things we just read about "Laura" doing in the books, right down to pretending "Jack" is following her around.
I don't know if I've mentioned it before, but the kids each have a thinking skills book that they work on during school time. That involves seeing patterns, sorting, classifying things according to shape, color or size, etc. I think it has helped all three of them - it has become more of a "fun" time than something they "have" to do. There again, Aleksa has been cruising. She has pattern blocks, or snapping cube blocks for her book, and she really loves it and is beaming-proud of completing her pages for the day.
All three have grown a foot, and I'm sick about it. I haven't even measured them lately. They aren't allowed to get any bigger! My son is going to be as tall as I am in about six months. Liana and Aleksa can just quit their growing too. They are supposed to stay tiny forever, right?
Well, I really need to get going. The troops are up and running, and that that means Mama better get herself in gear ASAP!
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
Valentine Magic
Decorated Livingroom
Happy Valentine's Day! (One Day Late!) I'm pretty sure that V-Day is my favorite holiday. Well, Christmas ranks right up there too, but it is such a busy, busy, go-go-go time of the year.
I do the "12 Days of Valentine's Day" for John. Each day he gets a little treat in his lunch, or a small gift, or a note or e-card, etc. Some are "romantical," and some are practical. In other words, I've been enjoying V-Day for about two weeks now! lol!
But yesterday! Oh, what a wonderful day it was! I'm sure the kids will remember yesterday forever. It was AwEsOmE! First off, yesterday morning before the kids got up, I sprinkled Valentine candy on the floor in the kids' rooms. The girls were actually awake, but oh-so-still secretly watching me dole out the goods. As soon as I left their room, I heard the flick of their light go on, and alllllll kinds of giggles. Adam says he was "half-awake" though because his loft is so high, he didn't see me at least. It was really fun.
John made me breakfast in bed!! Can you believe it! I thought that was sooo sweet! Brought me my tea and everything! (I'm becoming a Yerba Mate freak... anyone else out there drink that stuff?)
When the kids came out of their rooms (and I came out of mine!), they all greeted me with their fingertips on their heads to make themselves into hearts. Hard to explain, but I'm pretty sure you got the picture.
After the kids did school yesterday (and boy were they diligent getting through it, since they knew what was coming later!), we went out to the storage shed, and dug through the Christmas decorations looking for our white lights. Then, we came back in, and turned our livingroom into what sooo reminded me Prom Night. We also blew up ten large red, pink and white balloons and made a big clump of them hanging from/around the ceiling fan, which is also where the lights all radiated from. (Hence, the Prom Night effect.) THEN, we cut out a gazillion red hearts, hung them from gold ribbons alllll over the livingroom. We all vacuumed, dusted, cleaned and de-cluttered, until our livingroom was fit for a King.
Before John came home, we set up a table in the middle of the livingroom, with a pretty white table cloth, three small candles and sprinkled the table with candy. We put out the "good" dishes, and then played some nice classical music (rather loudly! lol), and all of us got dressed up in our favorite fancy clothes. Liana wanted to wear her dress-up dress *sigh*, but Aleksa put on her blue satin/black velvet Christmas dress. Adam had a white shirt and tie (plus a tie tack, which he was soooo proud of!) The kids proceeded to ball-room dance all over the room. John came home to the fanciest livingroom/family in town! :O) (And he came home with roses for me from a *way* too expensive flower shop in town.) *gulp*
For supper, we had strawberry heart-shaped pancakes, which John actually finished cooking while I took turns dancing with the kids. John made sure to get some good dancing in with his girls too. We alllll loved, loved, loved every minute.
After supper, John's parents dropped by to give us all some Valentine treats, and it was fun to see their reaction to our "Valentine Atmosphere." The kids filled their pockets with cut-out hearts that they had worked so hard on this afternoon.
After the Fishers left, we took down the table, and then made a "pin the tail on the donkey" kind of a game. Except it was a big heart, and we used the little hearts that the kids had already cut out as "tails." It was so fun to watch the kids giggle at each other (and us!) as we tried to feel our way around the room to go put our hearts on the board. (Which was the cardtable leaned up against the couch, btw). Adam won two out of the three games we played, and we're pretty sure there has to be a hole in the blindfold we used that only Adam knew about!
After "Pin the Heart on the Heart," we played pick-up sticks, which is the kids' new favorite game. John is the cheater in that game. He always seems to beat us all by about 15 sticks or so. (At least that's what it seems like!) lol
At the end of the night, we laid out a blanket, and we all flopped down on the floor and talked about what Love was, and what we did during the day that was loving, and how much fun it is to do hard work if it is because you love someone, etc. We sang a few songs, and then, sadly, we had to call it a night. Such a wonderful, wonderful day! I'm SOOOOOOOOO glad we didn't just call a sitter and go out... we would have missed out on one of the most wonderful days EVER. We plan to go out on Friday, but for the official "Valentines Day," I'm so glad we made it a family day.
I tried to upload some more video onto that website the other day, and they told me I had hit my capacity. *sigh* I'll have to figure something else out. There are so many I'd love to share!
Guess it's time to take down the twinkle lights and the balloons. *sigh* I guess all good things have to end some time! Happy Valentine's Day, everyone!
Happy Valentine's Day! (One Day Late!) I'm pretty sure that V-Day is my favorite holiday. Well, Christmas ranks right up there too, but it is such a busy, busy, go-go-go time of the year.
I do the "12 Days of Valentine's Day" for John. Each day he gets a little treat in his lunch, or a small gift, or a note or e-card, etc. Some are "romantical," and some are practical. In other words, I've been enjoying V-Day for about two weeks now! lol!
But yesterday! Oh, what a wonderful day it was! I'm sure the kids will remember yesterday forever. It was AwEsOmE! First off, yesterday morning before the kids got up, I sprinkled Valentine candy on the floor in the kids' rooms. The girls were actually awake, but oh-so-still secretly watching me dole out the goods. As soon as I left their room, I heard the flick of their light go on, and alllllll kinds of giggles. Adam says he was "half-awake" though because his loft is so high, he didn't see me at least. It was really fun.
John made me breakfast in bed!! Can you believe it! I thought that was sooo sweet! Brought me my tea and everything! (I'm becoming a Yerba Mate freak... anyone else out there drink that stuff?)
When the kids came out of their rooms (and I came out of mine!), they all greeted me with their fingertips on their heads to make themselves into hearts. Hard to explain, but I'm pretty sure you got the picture.
After the kids did school yesterday (and boy were they diligent getting through it, since they knew what was coming later!), we went out to the storage shed, and dug through the Christmas decorations looking for our white lights. Then, we came back in, and turned our livingroom into what sooo reminded me Prom Night. We also blew up ten large red, pink and white balloons and made a big clump of them hanging from/around the ceiling fan, which is also where the lights all radiated from. (Hence, the Prom Night effect.) THEN, we cut out a gazillion red hearts, hung them from gold ribbons alllll over the livingroom. We all vacuumed, dusted, cleaned and de-cluttered, until our livingroom was fit for a King.
Before John came home, we set up a table in the middle of the livingroom, with a pretty white table cloth, three small candles and sprinkled the table with candy. We put out the "good" dishes, and then played some nice classical music (rather loudly! lol), and all of us got dressed up in our favorite fancy clothes. Liana wanted to wear her dress-up dress *sigh*, but Aleksa put on her blue satin/black velvet Christmas dress. Adam had a white shirt and tie (plus a tie tack, which he was soooo proud of!) The kids proceeded to ball-room dance all over the room. John came home to the fanciest livingroom/family in town! :O) (And he came home with roses for me from a *way* too expensive flower shop in town.) *gulp*
For supper, we had strawberry heart-shaped pancakes, which John actually finished cooking while I took turns dancing with the kids. John made sure to get some good dancing in with his girls too. We alllll loved, loved, loved every minute.
After supper, John's parents dropped by to give us all some Valentine treats, and it was fun to see their reaction to our "Valentine Atmosphere." The kids filled their pockets with cut-out hearts that they had worked so hard on this afternoon.
After the Fishers left, we took down the table, and then made a "pin the tail on the donkey" kind of a game. Except it was a big heart, and we used the little hearts that the kids had already cut out as "tails." It was so fun to watch the kids giggle at each other (and us!) as we tried to feel our way around the room to go put our hearts on the board. (Which was the cardtable leaned up against the couch, btw). Adam won two out of the three games we played, and we're pretty sure there has to be a hole in the blindfold we used that only Adam knew about!
After "Pin the Heart on the Heart," we played pick-up sticks, which is the kids' new favorite game. John is the cheater in that game. He always seems to beat us all by about 15 sticks or so. (At least that's what it seems like!) lol
At the end of the night, we laid out a blanket, and we all flopped down on the floor and talked about what Love was, and what we did during the day that was loving, and how much fun it is to do hard work if it is because you love someone, etc. We sang a few songs, and then, sadly, we had to call it a night. Such a wonderful, wonderful day! I'm SOOOOOOOOO glad we didn't just call a sitter and go out... we would have missed out on one of the most wonderful days EVER. We plan to go out on Friday, but for the official "Valentines Day," I'm so glad we made it a family day.
I tried to upload some more video onto that website the other day, and they told me I had hit my capacity. *sigh* I'll have to figure something else out. There are so many I'd love to share!
Guess it's time to take down the twinkle lights and the balloons. *sigh* I guess all good things have to end some time! Happy Valentine's Day, everyone!
Saturday, February 04, 2006
More Videos
It took over four hours today, but I put about nine videos online today. They are from the first weeks/months home, and then some from a year later. There is one of Liana telling the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears while she is sitting on John's lap. That one is taken at one month home. Then, one year to the day later, I took another video of her telling the same story. I just put up some token "cutie" ones of Leks. I only got one of them of Adam on there so far, but fear not! I'll post more later. I don't know how many clips I'm allowed to put up there without paying, but I fully plan on using it up! (I've sure had fun going down Memory Lane listening to their little voices... it's just amazing how many changes they've made in 1 1/2 years! Enjoy! http://www.dropshots.com/ShellyFisher
Thursday, February 02, 2006
Curtsy Writing Video
I caught a cute video of the kids today... Thought I'd share it...
http://www.dropshots.com/ShellyFisher
http://www.dropshots.com/ShellyFisher
Thursday, January 26, 2006
A Day in the Life
Liana asked me the other day if I would teach her how to write in Curtsy. When I was telling my dad about that later, she indignantly piped up, "Mama, I meant CURTSIES writing!" oh, ok. I have no doubt that she will have curtsy writing very soon. ;O)
Our computer recently C-R-A-S-H-E-D. Good thing my hubby is a computer guru (I didn't use the word "geek," but just between me and you...) ;o) He salvaged my pictures and documents after a few days of staying up Way Late and trying to find them and extract them, or whatever he had to do to get them. I was *very* distraught at the thought of losing my digital pics and videos from the last year. I didn't cry too hard, but you know, that's just a horrible feeling. I had many, many pics burned onto disks, but my videos weren't, and it made me rather Ill.
So, after he found them and saved them, I sat and watched video after video of the last year. I noticed that I had taken individual videos of the kids a year ago this week, and so this week, it is my mission to take videos of the kids talking about the same subjects "a year later." It's amazing to see/hear how far the kids have come in a year. I cried more than a few times listening to how much their accents have faded (Leksa no longer says things are blue-tiful *waaa*)
School has been going smoothe as silk now that the holidays are well behind us. Our morning routines have been going off without a hitch, and it really sets the tone for the rest of the day. I wake up before the kids, and if I wake them up myself, they "remember" their routine lots better than if I let them sleep til they're done. They wake up wild - completly reveling in their "freedom" otherwise. Not cool. They almost inevitably wind up in trouble over something or other... Playing too rough and hurting someone, etc. They are still at the point where they need structure and routine *badly.* I get up at 6:30, either shower then, or sometimes I shower before bedtime at night, then I have my morning quiet time/tea/computer time. John gets up at 7:00, takes his shower, gets ready, and before he leaves for work, I make his lunch. I wake the kids up either right as John leaves, or a few minutes before. Adam takes his shower, gets dressed, makes his bed, etc., while the girls get dressed and make their beds. (It takes the girls as long to get dressed and make their beds as it does for Adam to shower PLUS do all of that. They're putzers and often need reminding of what they're doing. (They're getting better, however). While everyone is getting ready, I make my own bed and get dressed, plus set the breakfast table, and then sneak in as much more computer time as I can before everyone is ready to go. About every other day, I use this time to go on a house-cleaning kick. Bathroom germies are freaky to me, so I usually clean the kids' bathroom every other day at least. Since cold/flu season have hit, we've been Lysoling the door knobs, etc. too. The kids also straighten their rooms up after they are dressed. (Those are usually just fine from the previous day's pick-up). Then breakfast. We're usually done by 9:00 or 9:30, and then start in on school.
We have school time divided into two parts. Half is the seat work, which is their language, math, handwriting workbooks, "thinking skills" books, oral reading, plus a log they keep for their Patch Club. Then the "Book Time" is our our read-alouds, science, history, lit/poetry books, etc. During their seat-work time, I like to haul out the sewing machine (when it is working!), or baking/cooking up something, or do some more cleaning or computing.
This week we've been having lots of fun reading Greek history (I confess, I'm as much as a geek as my hubby; just in different areas!) I love history/lit - we've read about the Trojan War this week, and the kids have been at the edge of their seats hearing about the soldiers hiding inside the wooden horse, and wondering if they would be able to steal Menalaus' wife back away from Paris. Yesterday we read about the Cyclops and how Odysseus got away from him. It has been fun to have the kids tell John what they learned each day.
In science this week, we've read about the difference between rockets and space shuttles, and how astronauts work in space. Fun talks about floating food as they try to eat, etc. We've also been learning about things under the sea. Today we talked about how people drill for oil under the sea. Yesterday it was about how trains can go under water in tunnels, like the train between England and France under the English Channel. Tomorrow (and every other Friday after this), Grandpa Fisher is coming to do some experiments with the kids. I and another lady from church have lassoed him into doing this for me so I don't have to think about it each week. The kids are going to love it. (Grandpa taught math and science for years and years before changing jobs).
Let's see, what else... Lunch is in there too. We usually eat it late (like 1:00 some days). We're usually all done with school by 2:30. We also have been sneaking in a 10 minute exercise routine too. We all do jumping jacks, sit-ups, push-ups, marching, "the bicycle," etc. It's a fun time of giggling, huffing and puffing. Plus, it is a more structured time of getting the wiggles out.
Oh, I should add some of the things that help our morning go more smoothly. I try to fill the kitchen sink with hot water/soap and then when we are all done with our dishes for breakfast/lunch, we each wash our own dish. We always use paper plates for lunch. Adam sweeps after lunch, the kids alternate who wipes the table after meals, and I usually sweep before breakfast (I'm a floor-crumb phobic, but you'd never know it from looking at my floor!)
After school, we quick straighten the house again and vacuum. While the two older kids are doing all their seatwork, Leks has been playing, and usually tornado-izing her room. That gets picked up before she can play outside. Sometimes we do a little "quiet time" where they sit in their rooms with a book for 20 minutes or so, but lately that has only been on terribly wiggly and screamy days. I start supper at 4:00, or at least look to make sure I'll be done with it by the time John comes home. Sometimes I have to start earlier. I do menus for a month at a time, so there isn't any mad-scramble to figure out what is in the cupboards/freezer. Makes my life lots easier, and takes the sting out of the whole "supper-time" thing. The girls often like to help making supper, but if the weather permits, everyone likes to play outside.
John comes home by 5:30-5:45. That's the loudest time fo the day, because John walks in the door playing and wresting each of the kiddos. Lots of giggles and screaming while I cook supper. At supper, Leksa's job is to get vitamins and "fish pills" for everyone. Liana gets the napkins (I always forget those). The kids and I take turns doing dishes while John unwinds after work. I sweep the floor again, and make sure I'll feel good about waking up to "this kitchen" in the morning. (I hate waking up to a messy kitchen/livingroom). Then, bathtime for the girls, more play time with Papa, (sometimes a video), then we have a family devotion time, then the kids go to bed by 8:30 - 8:45.
We try to stick to that routine as much as possible, but once a week we go to my Dad's house in the morning to visit. I also make him/us breakfast, so I know dear old Dad is getting a hot breakfast at least once a week. Otherwise, it's the same old Rice Krispies with peaches every day for him. These are also the days that if we need to shop for him/us, go to the bank, do any other errands, etc., we can do them too. We're home by lunch, and then we just do our school in the afternoons instead of mornings/early afternoons. The days we do our "Cooking Day" at Dad's, we have distributed that days' school work through the other days that week, so we don't get behind. We only do that once every 5-6 weeks, so it's no big deal. Saturdays are our Library Days, because John likes to get a book for himself also. We also check out a video or two to watch during the week. We hardly ever just turn the tv to veg... There is way too much to do to make the Routine work, plus, it is a giant brain-drain on everyone. The kids love to watch videos, but it is just as good to play "pretend" games with each other building forts with blankets, playing in Adam's tent, or burning off some energy outside.
Not sure why I wanted to post our routine on here, but I guess I just thought maybe it would be helpful to someone, somehow, and to show how cool homeschooling can be; what great stuff you can learn right along with your kiddos, and how that structure/routine "looks" during a day in the life of a homeschool family. All the while, all our heartstrings are tightened around each other, and we have all learned to be responsible, diligent, trusting, loving, and to have all kinds of fun in the process. Someone asked me recently what I do for fun. I told her my life was my fun. I wouldn't want to be doing anything else in the wide world!
Our computer recently C-R-A-S-H-E-D. Good thing my hubby is a computer guru (I didn't use the word "geek," but just between me and you...) ;o) He salvaged my pictures and documents after a few days of staying up Way Late and trying to find them and extract them, or whatever he had to do to get them. I was *very* distraught at the thought of losing my digital pics and videos from the last year. I didn't cry too hard, but you know, that's just a horrible feeling. I had many, many pics burned onto disks, but my videos weren't, and it made me rather Ill.
So, after he found them and saved them, I sat and watched video after video of the last year. I noticed that I had taken individual videos of the kids a year ago this week, and so this week, it is my mission to take videos of the kids talking about the same subjects "a year later." It's amazing to see/hear how far the kids have come in a year. I cried more than a few times listening to how much their accents have faded (Leksa no longer says things are blue-tiful *waaa*)
School has been going smoothe as silk now that the holidays are well behind us. Our morning routines have been going off without a hitch, and it really sets the tone for the rest of the day. I wake up before the kids, and if I wake them up myself, they "remember" their routine lots better than if I let them sleep til they're done. They wake up wild - completly reveling in their "freedom" otherwise. Not cool. They almost inevitably wind up in trouble over something or other... Playing too rough and hurting someone, etc. They are still at the point where they need structure and routine *badly.* I get up at 6:30, either shower then, or sometimes I shower before bedtime at night, then I have my morning quiet time/tea/computer time. John gets up at 7:00, takes his shower, gets ready, and before he leaves for work, I make his lunch. I wake the kids up either right as John leaves, or a few minutes before. Adam takes his shower, gets dressed, makes his bed, etc., while the girls get dressed and make their beds. (It takes the girls as long to get dressed and make their beds as it does for Adam to shower PLUS do all of that. They're putzers and often need reminding of what they're doing. (They're getting better, however). While everyone is getting ready, I make my own bed and get dressed, plus set the breakfast table, and then sneak in as much more computer time as I can before everyone is ready to go. About every other day, I use this time to go on a house-cleaning kick. Bathroom germies are freaky to me, so I usually clean the kids' bathroom every other day at least. Since cold/flu season have hit, we've been Lysoling the door knobs, etc. too. The kids also straighten their rooms up after they are dressed. (Those are usually just fine from the previous day's pick-up). Then breakfast. We're usually done by 9:00 or 9:30, and then start in on school.
We have school time divided into two parts. Half is the seat work, which is their language, math, handwriting workbooks, "thinking skills" books, oral reading, plus a log they keep for their Patch Club. Then the "Book Time" is our our read-alouds, science, history, lit/poetry books, etc. During their seat-work time, I like to haul out the sewing machine (when it is working!), or baking/cooking up something, or do some more cleaning or computing.
This week we've been having lots of fun reading Greek history (I confess, I'm as much as a geek as my hubby; just in different areas!) I love history/lit - we've read about the Trojan War this week, and the kids have been at the edge of their seats hearing about the soldiers hiding inside the wooden horse, and wondering if they would be able to steal Menalaus' wife back away from Paris. Yesterday we read about the Cyclops and how Odysseus got away from him. It has been fun to have the kids tell John what they learned each day.
In science this week, we've read about the difference between rockets and space shuttles, and how astronauts work in space. Fun talks about floating food as they try to eat, etc. We've also been learning about things under the sea. Today we talked about how people drill for oil under the sea. Yesterday it was about how trains can go under water in tunnels, like the train between England and France under the English Channel. Tomorrow (and every other Friday after this), Grandpa Fisher is coming to do some experiments with the kids. I and another lady from church have lassoed him into doing this for me so I don't have to think about it each week. The kids are going to love it. (Grandpa taught math and science for years and years before changing jobs).
Let's see, what else... Lunch is in there too. We usually eat it late (like 1:00 some days). We're usually all done with school by 2:30. We also have been sneaking in a 10 minute exercise routine too. We all do jumping jacks, sit-ups, push-ups, marching, "the bicycle," etc. It's a fun time of giggling, huffing and puffing. Plus, it is a more structured time of getting the wiggles out.
Oh, I should add some of the things that help our morning go more smoothly. I try to fill the kitchen sink with hot water/soap and then when we are all done with our dishes for breakfast/lunch, we each wash our own dish. We always use paper plates for lunch. Adam sweeps after lunch, the kids alternate who wipes the table after meals, and I usually sweep before breakfast (I'm a floor-crumb phobic, but you'd never know it from looking at my floor!)
After school, we quick straighten the house again and vacuum. While the two older kids are doing all their seatwork, Leks has been playing, and usually tornado-izing her room. That gets picked up before she can play outside. Sometimes we do a little "quiet time" where they sit in their rooms with a book for 20 minutes or so, but lately that has only been on terribly wiggly and screamy days. I start supper at 4:00, or at least look to make sure I'll be done with it by the time John comes home. Sometimes I have to start earlier. I do menus for a month at a time, so there isn't any mad-scramble to figure out what is in the cupboards/freezer. Makes my life lots easier, and takes the sting out of the whole "supper-time" thing. The girls often like to help making supper, but if the weather permits, everyone likes to play outside.
John comes home by 5:30-5:45. That's the loudest time fo the day, because John walks in the door playing and wresting each of the kiddos. Lots of giggles and screaming while I cook supper. At supper, Leksa's job is to get vitamins and "fish pills" for everyone. Liana gets the napkins (I always forget those). The kids and I take turns doing dishes while John unwinds after work. I sweep the floor again, and make sure I'll feel good about waking up to "this kitchen" in the morning. (I hate waking up to a messy kitchen/livingroom). Then, bathtime for the girls, more play time with Papa, (sometimes a video), then we have a family devotion time, then the kids go to bed by 8:30 - 8:45.
We try to stick to that routine as much as possible, but once a week we go to my Dad's house in the morning to visit. I also make him/us breakfast, so I know dear old Dad is getting a hot breakfast at least once a week. Otherwise, it's the same old Rice Krispies with peaches every day for him. These are also the days that if we need to shop for him/us, go to the bank, do any other errands, etc., we can do them too. We're home by lunch, and then we just do our school in the afternoons instead of mornings/early afternoons. The days we do our "Cooking Day" at Dad's, we have distributed that days' school work through the other days that week, so we don't get behind. We only do that once every 5-6 weeks, so it's no big deal. Saturdays are our Library Days, because John likes to get a book for himself also. We also check out a video or two to watch during the week. We hardly ever just turn the tv to veg... There is way too much to do to make the Routine work, plus, it is a giant brain-drain on everyone. The kids love to watch videos, but it is just as good to play "pretend" games with each other building forts with blankets, playing in Adam's tent, or burning off some energy outside.
Not sure why I wanted to post our routine on here, but I guess I just thought maybe it would be helpful to someone, somehow, and to show how cool homeschooling can be; what great stuff you can learn right along with your kiddos, and how that structure/routine "looks" during a day in the life of a homeschool family. All the while, all our heartstrings are tightened around each other, and we have all learned to be responsible, diligent, trusting, loving, and to have all kinds of fun in the process. Someone asked me recently what I do for fun. I told her my life was my fun. I wouldn't want to be doing anything else in the wide world!
Thursday, January 19, 2006
Rough Day Sunday
I've been meaning all week to blog about Sunday night. I'm still shaking my head over it.
The kids are in a "kids' club" at church that sings for the congregation like once every 6-8 weeks or so. Sunday night was The Night. So, I needed to get the kids to church a half hour before the service started at 6:00. No prob. We can be there by 5:30, no sweat. I thought. John was at choir practice already, so it was all up to me to get us there in time. Well, about 5:00, the kids were goofing around, and Liana comes out of her room and says, "Mama, I didn't do it on purpose this time." And points to her hair. More specifically, she pointed to the GUM in her hair. Gum which she had already been trying to get out. In other words, it was matted in there really badly.
Freak Out Time for Mama. I quickly slathered on the peanutbutter, and started picking it out. I am not real happy about right then, but she didn't do it on purpose, so whaddaya do? Well, there obviously wasn't time to wash her hair, so I tell her that she has to wear her hair up so her hat (it's a sailor hat which all the clubbers wear) will cover it. She would be ok as long as she left the hat on.
Got the gum out, but Liana does NOT like her hair up this way. She starts crying and wailing. And, she can't find her skirt. And when she finds it, she doesn't want to wear the tights I picked for her. So, she cries and wails some more.
My nerves are shot by then. I ordered the other two out to the car, and suddenly, I realize I have No Idea in the wide world where my car keys are. I frantically dump out my purse, peruse the kitchen, the livingroom, all my favorite "dumping points" and can't find them. I'm really panicked by then, but I did find them in a bag I'd used the day before. I'm actually perspiring by then...
So, Liana is still crying in the bathroom getting dressed. She's hating her hair and her outfit, (boy am I going to have fun with her when she really IS into that stuff!) (OY) Suddenly, Aleksa starts screaming outside. I just can't handle it. Why is nothing going right all of a sudden?! From what I could understand, she hurt her ear outside. Ok, no blood; she'll probably live. I don't give her a whole lot of sympathy, to be real honest. I'm just wanting to pull out of the driveway Right Now.
So, Liana finally comes out of the bathroom and we leave. Both girls still crying, and Adam is Ticked Off, which is a usual if his sisters are hurt or crying about something. He gets mad at me when they are upset. (Which makes me CRAZY and it sure didn't help what I was already feeling at that point!) (I DIDN'T DO IT, ADAM!)
Anyway, I don't know how we did it, but we pulled up into the church parking lot right on time. Everyone is in Quite a Mood, but we're there.
Everyone sang like angels (WhatEver!), and alls well that ends well. Right?
Ready for the icing on the cake though? I found out the next day that Aleksa's sore ear was caused from (ready for this?), she had shut the car door on her ear! HOW DID SHE DO THAT? Her ear is actually quite bruised from it! I can't even imagine how she had her head positioned *at all* or WHY it would have been positioned in such a way, or WHY she shut it on HERSELF, but sure enough, Adam saw it, and Leksa felt it. Her ear got slammed in the car door. I wouldn't have believed it, but that little ear is black and blue...
Calgon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The kids are in a "kids' club" at church that sings for the congregation like once every 6-8 weeks or so. Sunday night was The Night. So, I needed to get the kids to church a half hour before the service started at 6:00. No prob. We can be there by 5:30, no sweat. I thought. John was at choir practice already, so it was all up to me to get us there in time. Well, about 5:00, the kids were goofing around, and Liana comes out of her room and says, "Mama, I didn't do it on purpose this time." And points to her hair. More specifically, she pointed to the GUM in her hair. Gum which she had already been trying to get out. In other words, it was matted in there really badly.
Freak Out Time for Mama. I quickly slathered on the peanutbutter, and started picking it out. I am not real happy about right then, but she didn't do it on purpose, so whaddaya do? Well, there obviously wasn't time to wash her hair, so I tell her that she has to wear her hair up so her hat (it's a sailor hat which all the clubbers wear) will cover it. She would be ok as long as she left the hat on.
Got the gum out, but Liana does NOT like her hair up this way. She starts crying and wailing. And, she can't find her skirt. And when she finds it, she doesn't want to wear the tights I picked for her. So, she cries and wails some more.
My nerves are shot by then. I ordered the other two out to the car, and suddenly, I realize I have No Idea in the wide world where my car keys are. I frantically dump out my purse, peruse the kitchen, the livingroom, all my favorite "dumping points" and can't find them. I'm really panicked by then, but I did find them in a bag I'd used the day before. I'm actually perspiring by then...
So, Liana is still crying in the bathroom getting dressed. She's hating her hair and her outfit, (boy am I going to have fun with her when she really IS into that stuff!) (OY) Suddenly, Aleksa starts screaming outside. I just can't handle it. Why is nothing going right all of a sudden?! From what I could understand, she hurt her ear outside. Ok, no blood; she'll probably live. I don't give her a whole lot of sympathy, to be real honest. I'm just wanting to pull out of the driveway Right Now.
So, Liana finally comes out of the bathroom and we leave. Both girls still crying, and Adam is Ticked Off, which is a usual if his sisters are hurt or crying about something. He gets mad at me when they are upset. (Which makes me CRAZY and it sure didn't help what I was already feeling at that point!) (I DIDN'T DO IT, ADAM!)
Anyway, I don't know how we did it, but we pulled up into the church parking lot right on time. Everyone is in Quite a Mood, but we're there.
Everyone sang like angels (WhatEver!), and alls well that ends well. Right?
Ready for the icing on the cake though? I found out the next day that Aleksa's sore ear was caused from (ready for this?), she had shut the car door on her ear! HOW DID SHE DO THAT? Her ear is actually quite bruised from it! I can't even imagine how she had her head positioned *at all* or WHY it would have been positioned in such a way, or WHY she shut it on HERSELF, but sure enough, Adam saw it, and Leksa felt it. Her ear got slammed in the car door. I wouldn't have believed it, but that little ear is black and blue...
Calgon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, January 18, 2006
Flying Fishy!
We had a wild morning over here. Adam put his nightstand/end table/plant stand/not-sure-what-to-call-it up on end against his bedroom door and when I barged in to see what was going on, the table crashed down onto the fish tank which was on Susie's cage, and Bubbles the Fish went flying through the air. He lived. You can't kill a beta fish, evidently.
Never a dull moment over here! *groan*
Never a dull moment over here! *groan*
Tuesday, January 17, 2006
17 Months Home
Boy has this been a busy winter! I have a stack of unsent Christmas cards that I have no idea what to do with. Do I send out Valentines this year, I wonder? lol! It makes me sick that I never sent them - I was lacking stamps so long, finally bought them, and then they up and changed how much it costs to send a letter! Any advice what I should do? Keep them all 'til next year? I'm feeling majorly guilty over it!
Adam has been making big strides in math. Suddenly, he's understanding math concepts (like multiplication) after just one afternoon of informally explaining it to him. He has been getting only one or two wrong on a page of math instead of him kicking and screaming to just sit down with the book open in front of him. I think he's also made some good strides in his attachment to us this month - though we did have a few rocky days in there too. He's been really good about getting right to work with his school stuff, though his very least favorite thing in the wide world is reading out loud. He can do pages of his language workbook without getting anything wrong, but oral reading is really, really hard for him. He has very little confidence, and he sounds out each letter as a crutch to "getting" the word -even the short-vowel, three-letter words. But, we continue to plug away. Adam is using better sentences now, though we are still having to remind him to say things the right way. He is just now finally using "is/do" occasionally without being reminded. He's made big strides even this month, though articulation is still tough on some sounds, (r's are killers for him), and he often rushes through words instead of sounding them out the right way - which he can do if reminded to slow down. For instance, instead of saying to his sisters, "Get out of here!" He'll often say, "Ge-yout here!" I've caught myself asking him to say "Get out of here" better... It just seemed wrong! lol! I've already talked about how girl crazy he is, so I won't go there again, but UFF, are we going to have our hands full with this guy!
Liana is really EXTRA cruising with math. She has been doing her math without getting anything wrong, and quickly memorizing her facts. As with Adam, reading aloud is tough for her, but it comes a little easier for her than Adam. It's work, so she doesn't enjoy it. She reads a lot more fluently than Adam does, however, she just really doesn't enjoy it and gets easily frustrated. I've been having her and Adam take turns reading paragraphs in their readers. It seems less intimidating to both of them to know that they won't have to read the ENTIRE page by themselves. I've also found that it is good for them to have a little peer pressure, and to be helping each other sound out words. (They both enjoy being in charge of the other, so they get a kick out of "teaching" their sibling).
Liana's articulation is getting better and better all the time, and she can finally say her "r's" well. She really has a great vocabulary and expresses herself really well. Except for a slight accent, she doesn't have any language "handicaps" except an occassional lack of a vocabulary word. (The word "blaze" was in her language book the other day, and she had no idea what it was.)
Aleksa, however, has dropped my jaw more than once this month. The little sneak has taught herself to read and is constantly sounding out words, and we're constantly hearing a *loud* Aleksa excitedly screaming whatever word she's just deciphered. She's figured out blends and everything. A few weeks ago as I was reminding Liana that "igh" said "I," Aleksa read the word "right" over her sister's shoulder. On top of that, she's also started writing down words by sounding them out. She's better at "a" vowel words, but I'm amazed that she can do it at all at this point! It really seems like she wakes up in the morning knowing stuff. The lights just either seem off or on for her, and she's flipped a TON of switches on this month. I had had no idea that she was that ready to read until she just up and started reading. (It just too bad it doesn't come as easily for the other two!) She's also been working on learning to write her numbers. She just today learned to write the 0,1,2,4 and 7. She has also been sitting in on all the science, history and read-alouds for school (her choice). For fun we've all been reading the Little House on the Prairie books, and we're almost through the second book. I had wondered how much was actually "sticking" with Aleksa, who has also been sitting in for those too. She now goes through the house with her dolly calling it "Baby Carrie," and calling Adam "Pa" and talking about the wolves and indians outside. I love that the stories we've been reading have carried over to play-time fun!
Adam's birthday was on Saturday. We have a big 11 year old now! We made him a loft bed for his birthday, which he loves, but it sure makes tuck-in time a lot more difficult! Last night John had to throw me up on his bed, and then catch me as I rolled off. It amused Adam lots, so I guess the extra effort was worth it!
In other words, things are going well for us, with a few minor struggles here and there. Not a whole lot different than the rest of the world, I guess!
Adam has been making big strides in math. Suddenly, he's understanding math concepts (like multiplication) after just one afternoon of informally explaining it to him. He has been getting only one or two wrong on a page of math instead of him kicking and screaming to just sit down with the book open in front of him. I think he's also made some good strides in his attachment to us this month - though we did have a few rocky days in there too. He's been really good about getting right to work with his school stuff, though his very least favorite thing in the wide world is reading out loud. He can do pages of his language workbook without getting anything wrong, but oral reading is really, really hard for him. He has very little confidence, and he sounds out each letter as a crutch to "getting" the word -even the short-vowel, three-letter words. But, we continue to plug away. Adam is using better sentences now, though we are still having to remind him to say things the right way. He is just now finally using "is/do" occasionally without being reminded. He's made big strides even this month, though articulation is still tough on some sounds, (r's are killers for him), and he often rushes through words instead of sounding them out the right way - which he can do if reminded to slow down. For instance, instead of saying to his sisters, "Get out of here!" He'll often say, "Ge-yout here!" I've caught myself asking him to say "Get out of here" better... It just seemed wrong! lol! I've already talked about how girl crazy he is, so I won't go there again, but UFF, are we going to have our hands full with this guy!
Liana is really EXTRA cruising with math. She has been doing her math without getting anything wrong, and quickly memorizing her facts. As with Adam, reading aloud is tough for her, but it comes a little easier for her than Adam. It's work, so she doesn't enjoy it. She reads a lot more fluently than Adam does, however, she just really doesn't enjoy it and gets easily frustrated. I've been having her and Adam take turns reading paragraphs in their readers. It seems less intimidating to both of them to know that they won't have to read the ENTIRE page by themselves. I've also found that it is good for them to have a little peer pressure, and to be helping each other sound out words. (They both enjoy being in charge of the other, so they get a kick out of "teaching" their sibling).
Liana's articulation is getting better and better all the time, and she can finally say her "r's" well. She really has a great vocabulary and expresses herself really well. Except for a slight accent, she doesn't have any language "handicaps" except an occassional lack of a vocabulary word. (The word "blaze" was in her language book the other day, and she had no idea what it was.)
Aleksa, however, has dropped my jaw more than once this month. The little sneak has taught herself to read and is constantly sounding out words, and we're constantly hearing a *loud* Aleksa excitedly screaming whatever word she's just deciphered. She's figured out blends and everything. A few weeks ago as I was reminding Liana that "igh" said "I," Aleksa read the word "right" over her sister's shoulder. On top of that, she's also started writing down words by sounding them out. She's better at "a" vowel words, but I'm amazed that she can do it at all at this point! It really seems like she wakes up in the morning knowing stuff. The lights just either seem off or on for her, and she's flipped a TON of switches on this month. I had had no idea that she was that ready to read until she just up and started reading. (It just too bad it doesn't come as easily for the other two!) She's also been working on learning to write her numbers. She just today learned to write the 0,1,2,4 and 7. She has also been sitting in on all the science, history and read-alouds for school (her choice). For fun we've all been reading the Little House on the Prairie books, and we're almost through the second book. I had wondered how much was actually "sticking" with Aleksa, who has also been sitting in for those too. She now goes through the house with her dolly calling it "Baby Carrie," and calling Adam "Pa" and talking about the wolves and indians outside. I love that the stories we've been reading have carried over to play-time fun!
Adam's birthday was on Saturday. We have a big 11 year old now! We made him a loft bed for his birthday, which he loves, but it sure makes tuck-in time a lot more difficult! Last night John had to throw me up on his bed, and then catch me as I rolled off. It amused Adam lots, so I guess the extra effort was worth it!
In other words, things are going well for us, with a few minor struggles here and there. Not a whole lot different than the rest of the world, I guess!
Thursday, January 12, 2006
Near Tragedy
On the way home from taking my dad to the doctor yesterday, a garbage truck that was just ahead of us in the other lane hit the top of his truck on the bottom of the overpass and blew the hydraulic fluid line. It instantly blew alllllllll over the highway, which included all over my windshield and windows. Couldn't see *anything* and I really had to fight for control for a few *long* seconds. There were no other cars on the road around us, or I know I would have hit them. I could hardly see where the side of the road was - Dad actually had to tell me where it was. The more I wiped the windows, the more I couldn't see. It was horrible. Especially since I had absolutely no idea what happened until after I finally pulled over and asked the garbage man what he did to me! lol! The poor guy had no cellphone and of course mine was home recharging on the dresser.... *grrrr* I got to call the cops and the guy's boss to fill them in. Firetrucks had to come and hose down the highway, and everything. Such excitement. It really could have been bad, but thankfully we had no ice, no traffic, and lots of guardian angels hanging around today.
I told Dad he needed to give me his Milky Way though, so if I got in another accident on the way home, at least I would die with a happy tummy. ;O)
I told Dad he needed to give me his Milky Way though, so if I got in another accident on the way home, at least I would die with a happy tummy. ;O)
Friday, January 06, 2006
Srozhdestvom Kristovym
Ya know what? It's Ukrainian Christmas Eve today! I didn't go too crazy with all the cooking for it (as Kendra pointed out on her blog, Ukrainian food is back-breaking food to make!) I found a few simple recipes, and just talked it up.
I was feeling bad about not having ordered anything from Yevshan for the kids for Ukie Christmas. (Yevshan is an *awesome* Ukrainian gift store. Do a Google search and you'll find it.) I drool over this catalog! Anyway, I'd love to pick out something from it for the kids each year, but well, you know, things just happen, and life doesn't always turn out the way we want!
Well, this afternoon the mailman brought a package from one of my blog buddies full of Ukie stuff! I just couldn't believe it! The girls each got beautiful dolls dressed in the traditional folk dresses, and Adam got a carved wooden plate with the Ukrainian crest on it (is it called a tryzub?) Anyway, all three kids L-O-V-E-D them, and it really was the icing on the cake today. Adam's plate is proudly hung on the wall, and the girls' dollies have been cuddled, spun and danced with all the rest of the day.
But! The very best thing was for me. Inside this package was a bag of sunflower seeds straight from Ukraine!!! I'm *SOOOOO* excited! Ever since our trip, I regretted not buying some sunflower seeds, and this sweetheart of a lady picked some up for me on her own trip to Ukraine! How awesome is THAT?
Anyway, it was really neat that the package came right in time for Ukrainian Christmas. I loved, loved, loved it!
Srozhdestvom Kristovym everyone!
I was feeling bad about not having ordered anything from Yevshan for the kids for Ukie Christmas. (Yevshan is an *awesome* Ukrainian gift store. Do a Google search and you'll find it.) I drool over this catalog! Anyway, I'd love to pick out something from it for the kids each year, but well, you know, things just happen, and life doesn't always turn out the way we want!
Well, this afternoon the mailman brought a package from one of my blog buddies full of Ukie stuff! I just couldn't believe it! The girls each got beautiful dolls dressed in the traditional folk dresses, and Adam got a carved wooden plate with the Ukrainian crest on it (is it called a tryzub?) Anyway, all three kids L-O-V-E-D them, and it really was the icing on the cake today. Adam's plate is proudly hung on the wall, and the girls' dollies have been cuddled, spun and danced with all the rest of the day.
But! The very best thing was for me. Inside this package was a bag of sunflower seeds straight from Ukraine!!! I'm *SOOOOO* excited! Ever since our trip, I regretted not buying some sunflower seeds, and this sweetheart of a lady picked some up for me on her own trip to Ukraine! How awesome is THAT?
Anyway, it was really neat that the package came right in time for Ukrainian Christmas. I loved, loved, loved it!
Srozhdestvom Kristovym everyone!
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