Friday, July 29, 2005

Met-cha Day

The 27th was Picked-cha Day for us, but today is our Met-cha Day. You'd think it was a perfect day of reflecting on the year and how we all have changed and grown, and reminiscing about what those first minutes of our meetings were like, and being all mushy about how perfect my kiddos are.

Nope.

Today has been HARD. We've had some, um, rough moments today. Like when I asked the kids to clean their junk out of the back of the car and they took everything out of the car, left it in the driveway, (complete with car doors open), and then went off to play.

And like one of them having a nosebleed in the bathroom and leaving a mess looking something like a crime-scene.

And like another of them stealing bug spray off the neighbor's deck (two houses down) and squirting it all over and having to go and ask the neighbor for forgiveness and offer to do odd jobs tomorrow to make up for it, and having the neighbor be not-so-happy about any of the above.

And like two of the three kids disappearing out of the yard and turning up at a rummage sale that a neighbor was having, but not until I had been in the car running all over the neighborhood searching for them...

Just thought you'd want to know what a day in the life looks like when the day is not so wonderful and picture-perfect!

Calgon...!

;O)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

From what I understand from other adoption groups, anniversaries (abandonment day, gotcha day) bring up emotions and behaviors in adopted kids, even those who were too young to remember the events. I hope tomorrow's better. Jess

Anonymous said...

And you know what every day IS, and your kids know this too... "KEEPIN'YAFOREVER day!" You are a great Mom and a devoted parent. Unfortunately, parenting is filled with moments of utter frustration, disbelief, and occasionally embarrassment, but it is so good that 1. you already know this and 2. you LOVE your children! Tomorrow is a new day! And P.S. Happy Belated Birthday Shelly! Sending you long distance pats on the back -- Laurel in Tulsa